As a woman, there must have been a moment in life you’ve wondered how to make him want you and what it takes to make him desire you. You might find it easy attracting him but making him want you depends on some rather different aspects.
Apart from what you can offer- from cooking him dinners to performing in bed, you might need to develop the right personality. It is one thing that penetrates a man’s psychology to a deeper and meaningful level. By understanding and mastering the art of tapping into a man’s psyche, he will do anything just to have you.
Reaching him at a level that he will want to start out with you means you have to recognize his ambitions, his motivations, his fears, his interests and goals in life. Here are seven ways of reaching a man deeply and making him want to commit himself to you alone.
1. Self- Improvement
Men desire a woman who can inspire them to be their best self. However, being that woman is a different mindset from what most women are doing these days. Making him want you means working on yourself; be understanding, confident, kind and independent. Be open to new things and maintain a positive outlook.
When you are only focused on getting him want you, it can be easy to lose yourself. This should not happen, only work to be healthier and better.
2. Attraction
There’s one fact that the guy you are into has to be attracted to you sexually if you are to make him want you. If he doesn’t feel a sense of desire and physical attraction to you, then it will be hard for you. His attraction to you is a required foundation for making him want you. The point here is, strive to be attractive in the best way possible – it is in your control.
Do not kill your attractiveness by lacking self-esteem and having insecurities about yourself. Own the things you can’t control. No matter what your fault or weakness is, avoid self-doubt; it is by far more unattractive. No man expects or demands perfection – own your imperfections, and he will find you attractive. Remember insecurity is a clear sign of desperation, which ultimately kills attraction.
3. Compliment Him the Right Way
Men desire the feeling of knowing they are desired. Praising him reinforces the fact that you are attracted to him, which intensifies his feelings for you. Fill your conversation with some compliments. However, do not make the ordinary compliments, praise him in a more obscure and exclusive way- he will feel you are genuine.
Make sure you mean what you say so that the complement fits into the conversation naturally. When you meet and begin flirting, use somewhat generic phrases for a compliment. As you get to know each other, work organic compliments in your conversation.
4. Flirting effectively.
Try to connect with your man intellectually by being sweet to him and bringing in flirty conversations. Allow him to make you blush. However, do not be too flirty and not serious at all, it will get boring. When together, try connecting with him intellectually by talking about some things like his ambitions, aspirations and career goals. This makes him see you can bring in something meaningful and worthy in life.
Lingering soft touches – Feel comfortable when flirting teasingly as men do not resist a woman’s touch. Ensure he feels your soft touch for an unusual longer moment every time you are with him, be it when hugging each other upon meeting or saying goodbye, or when clasping palms.
Do not ask him for keys, just glide your hand into the pocket and take them out. Again, do not ask him to pass something, reach across him and let your breasts rub against his arms. Never underestimate the power of a random, unexpected touch – it feels romantic and excites him. This way, you create a physical connection that leaves him wanting you more.
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5. Be pleasant and smile often
It is hard for men to resist a smile from women. Therefore, be warm and pleasant when with him and he will fall for it. You can do it by doing some crazy yet seductive things like tucking hair behind your ears when having a conversation, look into his eyes and blush in some way giving him compliments. Laugh when he makes jokes, either you’ve heard them previously or not. In short, show him the best. Most men will try to impress you by being somewhat funny, assure him that you are having a great time with him. Make him feel better, and he will be all over you.
Stare deep into his eyes when having a conversation. Smile and flirt but every time he talks to you, ensure your eyes meet. It will make him feel warm and confident with you. This makes him want to remain close to you.
6. Do not let him know you want him
Men take some time to fall for women but do it when they feel it is worthy, therefore understand this and let him take his time. Although he will realize you like him, make sure he does not know you have fallen for him. Make him wonder about your seriousness, and he will make the first moves to proposing a serious relationship. However, do not push him away to the extent that he gives up. Warm up to him yet play hard to get.
Another thing is showing him that other men are interested in you. This way, he will realize that there is competition and will make a move before another man does. He will make the effort of winning you over.
7. Dress attractively
Almost every man is visual; they are easily attracted to what they see. Ensure you dress your best when with the man you desire. Dressing attractively makes him glance at you often. The moment other men start admiring you, makes him like, desire, and want to have you more, Moreover, due to the competitive nature of men in wooing ladies, when you get attention from other men, he feels motivated and can do anything to win more attention from you.
Finally, do not forget to show off your talents. Surprising a man with your talent can make him want you. Men like ladies for who they are, and what they can do different compared to others. Surprise him with your talents such that he will want more of you. You can show off your dancing skills, expertise in playing a musical instrument, karting, singing or even cooking abilities.
Follow these seven tips, be patient and have a perfect balance of affection and you will make him want you. You can be sure he will crave for your company and care for you like he never did to any other lady.
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